Welcome to Date Smart™ — the dating app for people who actually give a sh*t about their emotions. We don't match vibes. We match nervous systems.This app won't just show you compatible people — it will help you understand yourself better. How you feel loved, what triggers you, how you get attached, how you react in certain situations, and how your body and brain respond at each dating stage.This is not for everyone.And that's the point.On Date Smart™, you don't just swipe, say "hey" and disappear.Before you even see your first match, you'll go through over 150 questions about:Your emotional needsYour triggers and boundariesHow you give and receive loveYour nervous system patterns under stress and intimacyYour values, life vision, and what 'real love' actually looks like for you🔒 No completed assessments = No matches.Everyone you see did the work. That's the whole point.So what does "we match nervous systems"even mean?We figure out how your heart + brain behave.Attachment style, wounds, patterns, communication, conflict, nervous system triggers. Not to drag you — to help you stop playing the same movie with different actors.We figure out what you actually need (not what you post).Values, needs, boundaries, love languages, nervous system preferences: chaos vs calm, speed vs slow, validation vs space.We only show you people who also did the work.If they didn't sit down and answer 150+ questions about themselves, you will not see them. Lazy effort doesn't even make it past the door.The Anti-HookupMovementDate Smart™ is not anti-sex.We're anti-using people as coping mechanisms.We're anti-trauma theater disguised as romance.We're anti-breadcrumbing, ghosting, and "I'm not ready" after 6 months of emotional intimacy.
